For more than two decades, Barbara Katsos has led the Law Offices of Barbara H. Katsos, PC, in New York, NY, as owner. In this capacity, she oversees all daily operations of the firm and works directly with clients dealing with real estate matters as well as estate planning needs such as guardianship.
Many parents struggle with choosing a guardian for their children. Unfortunately, if you do not nominate a guardian, the responsibility of deciding falls to the courts. Below are a few things to consider to help you choose the right guardian for your child or children:
– Define your perfect parent. Try forgetting about specific people and focus on creating your idea of a perfect parent. Define the moral values, characteristics, and spirituality of your ideal parent, and lay out the practical skills they should possess. After you’ve defined your perfect parent, compare your options to this ideal to eliminate candidates who do not meet your desired qualities.
– Think outside of family. It’s normal to think about having a sibling or parent become the guardian of your child, but immediate family is not the only option available. You can also consider your close friends. Your friends may share more similarities with you than your family does and, thus, be a more ideal choice.
– Focus on love. Regardless of whether you choose a family member or friend, you want to make sure your child will be well-loved. Make sure your child will not be second place if your chosen guardian has children of their own and ensure your desired guardian has enough time to devote to raising a child. Further, if your son or daughter is already comfortable with someone, it may be easier for them to feel loved by a guardian.